Monday, November 2, 2009

Hiding something

Sometimes because of pride or ego or a mistaken idea, one person may not confide in another or tell them the whole truth. Have you ever been in a situation in which you didn’t want the other person to know something about you? You had something you wanted to keep secret? How did you act? Did the other person realize you were hiding something? How did your behavior change the way they acted toward you?

Well that has happened to me before but I am not willing to share the experience and who was involved. When I have something to hide I don't show it at all becuase I don't even want people to question becuase I will never end up telling them about it. I hate it when you know someone is hiding something and they hint towards it and than never tell you. Its like they want you to know but they don't want to tell you. That really bugs me.

The other reason I neer show that i am hiding something is because one time my friend started figuring out that I was hiding something and she really wanted to know but I wasn't going to tell her. This made them pretty angry with me and now we are not the closest of friends just becuase of one dumb little secret.

Some people say that they tell their best friends everything. But this is probably not true. I don't think I could name a person in the world that doesn't have a secret to hide even from their very best friend. I mean I will admit that I have secrets that I don't even share with my best friends because sometimes I just don't feel cofurtable sharing even though I am so close to them.

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